For two weeks now, I have spent my Saturdays on a farm. Prior to that, I have been bored and I was ready to try anything new that came my way.
When I received the first invitation to come to farm, I tried declining it because i had never been to a farm and I was self conscious about not knowing what to do. I didn’t want to be the city girl in the midst of the others who were used to farming.
However, I confided in Mr E who invited me and he encouraged me to come. He told me I would learn because it’s no big deal. I reluctantly agreed and I was glad I went.
It’s planting season, so we basically went to weed and apply fertilizers to the recently planted maize and cassava.(that was two weeks ago)However, we went to a different farm last week and it was another adventure. We planted maize and cassava this time around.
Now I am wondering what is the purpose of my farm gistπ€¦. I guess because I had been bored and I finally got to do something different and I also got a chance to learn.
It amazed me that we have to bury the seeds for it to grow. Even more interesting is the fact that the land that Currently looks barren would soon be filled with growing plants and soon, it would be time for harvest.
I try to imagine what it means to be buried so that I can grow. I wonder if I am going through a similar process right now.
I also wonder if the maize seeds I planted deep in soil have voices. Maybe they were pleading with me not to bury them. π Silly thought I know.
Another striking thing about going to the farm was the companionship. I was not alone, we numbered 9 and we talked, laughed and swapped stories while we worked.
We all had a goal in mind, but while we worked, we also had fun. Taught me the importance of company. I suppose that is why we have families and companions on our life journey. We are not meant to be alone or isolated.
Being a listener by nature, I simply enjoyed the various stories I heard, as well as catching a glimpse into the inner world of people I otherwise know something about next to nothing about.
We also ate together after which I refused to go back to work π. ( Did I hear someone call me a lazy girl? Please don’t judge me until you have worked as hard as I didπ)I picked a spot under a palm tree, sat on a heap and decided to encourage the guys who went back to work.
I have some terrible pictures to show for this talk. Now don’t complain. Half loaf they say is better than none.
So here goes the picture of a section of the farm. Inside these heaps are buried seeds of maize and cassava stalks.
Not only squirrels love palmkernel, humans too. Especially the humans who went to this particular farm. This nut is still sitting in his hard shell because it was not broken properly. Someone at the farm told me it’s because the shell is not dry enough.
I found this a couple of times while I was working. I couldn’t tell what it is and nobody seem to know it. Looks nice and maybe it’s edible who knows?
Hahaπ so I decided to snap my hands as evidence of my hard work. Let me toot my hornπ. This girl is hard working. Reminds me of something I heard on the farm, I was told that in certain climes in the olden days, when a women wants to get married, her farm is inspected, the condition of her farm is used to determine her eligibility for marriage. Hence, a woman who is ready for marriage must pay good attention to her farm. ( I told you I heard several stories and fables).
I am also convinced that the farming environment often loosens people’s tongues and inhibition.
Hum…here goes your girl. I had to cover my friend’s face because she said she looks terrible. We both do actually… But was I supposed to look Peng on a farm π€·π€. I really don’t know why I have that straight face, bear with me, I will smile or bare my 36 next time π
Lastly, my phone took this picture without my permission. But I have forgiven my phone and so I am sharing the picture with you.
It’s a Wrap, thanks for visiting and …
Keep Blooming π
I loved this SO much, Lade. I smiled the whole time I was reading it. Hard work is a wonderful thing. It does feel good, doesn’t it? You’ve inspired me today with your words. Thank you so much for that little sister. Love you. Got you in my heart and prayers. β€
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Thanks Big sister. I am glad you smiled and I actually have a grin on my face as I am writing this. Yes hard work does feel good. I appreciate your kind words and prayers too π
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Glad you’re grinning. Keep it up. π β€
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Such an interesting and inspiring read. There is dignity in labour. Well done!
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Thank you very much
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It’s a wrap! that made me smile. Working on a farm is physical! If you are not used to using those shovel muscles you get worn down fast! I worked in an office and I know on weekends and evenings when I was renovation work I was exhausted physically. It made me glad for my mind exhausting job! haha. How did you get invited to work on a farm? My family had farms on the prairies in Canada but farms have changed now, they are much bigger. – David
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Hello how are you? I am sorry I just replied this. Had Technical issues with my WordPress but it’s all sorted now. Indeed I agree , farming is exhausting. Both times I went to farm, I slept like a log after I got homeπ.
In many states in Nigeria, farming is one of the dominant occupation, if not for commercial purposes, to feed one’s family. Anyway, I am far away from home as I am currently “serving my country” .Nigerian graduates of universities and polytechnics are required to take part in a national youth service corps program for one year and each person is deployed to a place far away from home(although some would redeploy back home) I am from a state in the west and I was posted to a state in the east which is about 10hrs drive from home. To cut the long story short, I was invited by a member of my church who is an indigene of the state where I currently am. So that’s my farm invitation story. π
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Super Fantastic! It is for two reasons:
1) You enjoyed your way through something you didn’t think (at first) you would enjoy!
2) You chose to share your fantastic adventure with us, your readers.
I’m super duper proud of you for going for it. I believe that you will enjoy telling and sharing your adventure for years to come. You will also never ever forget it. It’s emblazoned on your psyche now. It taught you something that will be a very important guiding force in your life. You honed your listening skills, which probably helped to make the experience of others there with you more enjoyable. You explored, tended, benefited the natural world. WOW!!! π
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Yes, I had a swell time at the farm. Time spent in nature and in the company of people who were patient to teach me and whom I learnt quite a lot as well as getting entertained.
I only wish you could see the smile on my face when I read that you were proud of me π€ . I really appreciate your kind words, thank you π
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You are very welcome. Highest and Best! βΊοΈ
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You my dear are a delight and teachable and wise because you are teachable. I really like the story of in olden times when a girl wants to marry her farm is inspected to see if she is a worthy women to marry. You know that is still true today. I remember telling our son about the girl he was going to marry that she was mature wise not mature enough for marriage. He did not listen. Six years into the marriage, two children later he left her. He show his lack of wisdom and maturity even more. So what did we as parents do? Prayed, a lot, loved on them both, and the grandchildren, prayed that God would turn his heart around. We understood why he left her, she was a child, had been treated like a princess and he need a queen. Praise the Lord after two years of being divorced they remarried, had another child, and now their marriage is perfect. Now you must know I am joking, no marriage is perfect, its always a work on in progress. It’s hard work, like farming. Great, fun post to read…
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Wow. This is really insightful, I am glad your son got back together with his wife. As a single lady, I have learnt from your wisdom, and I am really grateful for your kind words, means a lot to me. π
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Beautiful photos
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Thanks Saania π
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This is a wonderful inspiring read. Thanks for posting it.
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I agree! Learning something new – and hard work – is a great way to cure boredom. Happy farming!
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Indeed, I enjoyed farming. Thank you for the comment.
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